Horse Hair Jewellery vs Horse Ashes Jewellery: A Gentle Guide for Horse Owners

When we lose a horse, the grief is unlike anything else. Horses aren’t just animals — they’re partners, companions, teachers, and quiet healers. Choosing a piece of memorial jewellery can be a comforting way to honour that bond, but many people aren’t sure whether to choose horse hair jewellery or horse ashes jewellery.

Both options are meaningful. Both hold deep emotional value. And both can be created in a way that feels gentle and respectful.

This guide will help you understand the difference, so you can choose the option that feels right for your heart and your horse’s memory.

What Is Horse Hair Jewellery?

Horse hair jewellery is created using a small amount of your horse’s mane or tail hair. It’s a beautiful choice if:

• you want something natural and organic

• you prefer a keepsake that feels physically connected

• you didn’t choose cremation

• you want a piece that reflects your horse’s spirit and presence

The hair can be:

• woven

• set into resin

• combined with soft colours or shimmer

• kept natural for a simple, understated look

Only a tiny amount of hair is needed, and any unused hair is always returned.

What Is Horse Ashes Jewellery?

Horse ashes jewellery is created using a very small amount of cremation ashes, held safely within resin or a secure chamber. It’s a meaningful choice if:

• your horse was cremated

• you want a piece that feels grounding and symbolic

• you prefer a design that looks like traditional jewellery

• you want something subtle and private

Ashes can be combined with:

• soft colours

• shimmer

• dried flowers

• natural tones

Each piece is made individually, with your horse’s ashes kept clearly labelled and separate at every stage.

Which Option Feels More Personal?

There’s no right or wrong answer — only what feels like love.

Some people choose hair because it feels alive, soft, and familiar. Others choose ashes because it feels symbolic, grounding, and deeply meaningful. Some choose both, in different pieces, for different reasons.

Your choice is personal, and it’s okay to take your time.

Which Option Is More Durable?

Both are durable when cared for properly.

• Hair in resin is sealed and protected, making it long‑lasting.

• Ashes in resin are equally secure.

• Self‑fill ashes chambers offer a metal option for those who prefer something without resin.

If you’re unsure, I can guide you based on the piece you’re drawn to.

Which Option Looks More Like Traditional Jewellery?

If you want something that looks like everyday jewellery:

• Ashes jewellery tends to blend more seamlessly into classic designs.

• Hair jewellery often has a more natural, textured appearance.

Both can be subtle — it depends on the style you choose.

How Much Hair or Ashes Do You Need?

Very little.

• A small pinch of ashes

• A few strands of hair

Anything unused is always returned with your finished piece.

A Gentle Closing Thought

Whether you choose horse hair jewellery or horse ashes jewellery, the most important thing is that the piece feels right for you. Your horse’s memory is held in your heart — the jewellery is simply a way to carry that love with you in a form you can touch.

If you’d like gentle guidance, or if you’re unsure which option suits your story, you’re always welcome to reach out. I’m here to help you choose something meaningful, comforting, and true to the bond you shared.

I’ve also written a gentle guide about pet and horse keepsakes, which you may find comforting.